|The view from behind the tree on our way home down the Grand Canal|
But after more than two full years of our son's tireless advocacy, exhortations, and frequent kvetching, we did actually transport the Christmas tree we purchased last weekend home in a boat. And, just as he'd insisted it would be since he was no more than four years of age (veneziablog.blogspot.it/2012/12/buying-christmas-tree, veneziablog.blogspot.it/2013/12/of-practical-beauty), it really was the most enjoyable experience we've had getting the tree home.
|At the helm on the Grand Canal: all business and sober vigilance--in spite of the Pimpa cartoon character life vest|
"Stupid?" I asked, completely thrown.
"I don't think that" Sandro quickly replied. "It's what Tomaso said. That using a boat to get a Christmas tree is stupid."
"Who is this Tomaso?" I demanded.
"A kid in my class."
"Well, do you agree?"
"No," Sandro said. Then he added, "And he said you were stupid."
"I'm stupid? How does he know I'm stupid, this kid I've never even seen?"
"Because you thought of getting the Christmas tree with the boat."
"But you were the one who always wanted to use a boat to get the tree!" I reminded him. "Do you not want to now?"
"No, I do. Let's go! Tomaso is stupid!"
I include the above exchange not to suggest anything about "how sharper than a serpent's tooth is the ingratitude of a child" (or not much, anyway), but to illustrate that getting a Christmas tree in one's own boat may not exactly be a venerated and widely-practiced Venetian tradition.
Of course, given the fact that Sandro, like many kids, has been known to boast in the most annoying way, Tomaso may simply have labeled the whole enterprise "stupido" as a means of cutting him down to size. Though I don't know how I got dragged into it.
But the fact is that, as picturesque as the practice might potentially be, I don't recall seeing people transporting Christmas trees in their boats. The simple reason for this may be because of how many Venetians seem to favor artificial trees.
Or it may be that for some reason unknown to me many Venetians really do consider such an idea to be as foolish as Tomaso did. (Though I'd give the kid's opinion more weight if he bore the distinctly Venetian name of Alvise or Jacopo.)
In any case, one of the great benefits of being a foreigner of no standing whatsoever is the freedom from the worry that plagues those locals who are known, and who (as an Italian man once lamented to me) grow up with a heavy sense of the comments that being seen dashing off to the grocers in, say, a particularly shoddy outfit might inspire among neighbors.
In other words, those video cameras one sees in various places around the city are rather superfluous (and often non-functioning) shams compared to the system of surveillance already long- and securely-established here.
But I come from an entirely different tradition....
When I was a child I fantasized rather feverishly along quite conventional lines about going to get a tree in a station wagon. There was supposed to be snow on the ground and, whether the tree itself was to come from a charming tree lot warmed by an outdoor fire and the good cheer of its proprietor or chopped out of some friendly forest, the prize would be transported home all prettily atop the car's roof rack. Of course as I grew up in the middle of the flat temperate agricultural San Joaquin Valley in California snow was out of the question, as were forests. We also lacked the station wagon.
It never occurred to me to think of going to get a tree in a boat, and even world-famous Venice itself was an undiscovered and entirely unsuspected country well beyond the horizon of my narrow world. I could never have foreseen getting up on a cold gray morning and taking a vaporetto to the island of Certosa where we keep our boat. I never had any childhood experience even remotely resembling that of heading out into the lagoon last Saturday as the sun squinted between clouds, casting a silvery sheen over a hazy fantastical silhouetted cityscape of towers and cupolas, roof-line statuary and odd ornamentation.
All of which is to say something like: That for all the desire we might have to be secure in our sense of the world and our place in it, knowing what we want and what is expected of us by those around us, I often find that the best experiences of my life are those I never knew enough to even desire. That if we are lucky, some of the best gifts we get are those it never even occurs to us to ask for. Those experiences, and those people, we stumble into quite stupidly, as Tomaso might put it.